Thursday, June 10, 2021

St. Francis de Sales’ Advice to Married Couples


“MARRIAGE is a great Sacrament both in Jesus Christ and His Church, and one to be honoured to all, by all and in all. To all, for even those who do not enter upon it should honour it in all humility. By all, for it is holy alike to poor as to rich. In all, for its origin, its end, its form and matter are holy. It is the nursery of Christianity, whence the earth is peopled with faithful, till the number of the elect in Heaven be perfected; so that respect for the marriage tie is exceedingly important to the commonwealth, of which it is the source and supply. 

Would to God that His Dear Son were bidden to all weddings as to that of Cana!... I would exhort all married people to seek that mutual love so commended to them by the Holy Spirit in the Bible….  But I say to you in the Apostle's words: ‘Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the Church. Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands as unto the Lord.’ … it is God's Invisible Hand Which binds you in the sacred bonds of marriage; it is He Who gives you one to the other, therefore cherish one another with a holy, sacred, heavenly love.

The first effect of this love is the indissoluble union of your hearts. The second effect of this love should be an inviolable fidelity to one another.  The third end of marriage is the birth and bringing up of children. And herein, O ye married people! are you greatly honoured, in that God, willing to multiply souls to bless and praise Him to all Eternity, He associates you with Himself in this His work, by the production of bodies into which, like dew from Heaven, He infuses the souls He creates as well as the bodies into which they enter.”  [Introduction to the Devout Life by St. Francis de Sales Chapter XXXVIII --Counsels to Married People]

Reflect on the gift of Marriage to the married couple, to the Church and to the world.

 

St. Joseph pray for us. 

St. Andre Bessette intercede for us. 

May God Be Praised!  





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